Hi WH, I was just having a talk about how big a deal it is to live with someone. She is thinking of moving in with her BF because it will be easier for her to get a job and go to school as he lives downtown close to campus. I told her all those reasons are true, but that moving in together is a BIG step and one that may not turn out well. Why is it that so many MLCers seem to be so quick to start living with OW? I mean, really, when you live together you're pretty much doing the same things as if you were married just not the commitment. I don't see myself just asking some woman I'm dating after the D is final to move in with me AND my kids! They are so unable to even try to fix a many year M but so quick to start living with another person! Making their kids deal with another person they know helped end their family on a daily basis. Why is this? I'm guessing it's just part of the glitch in their heads!
