BTW - although my ex's current wife - not an OW - is cute, younger, and possibly a bit more athletic than I was - I also know for a fact that she makes a lot less than me (one of my ex's bogus excuses for leaving was that I wasn't making enough money lolol), and isn't as smart. She seems nice enough, and fulfills his Asian fantasy, but really, she hasn't got anything on me. She's just different.