I just re-read your post. This is good advice. Thank you for putting it out there.
I am reading signals, but it is sooo soon for anything to happen.
"If you want to live there to be close to the kids, make a life apart from her. There should be a discussion about the A before attempting to live together again. She has a history of keeping things from you, and that would need to be addressed as well."
That is great advice. Me getting to the point of knowing, believing and wanting to take things slow has been huge for my PMA. It is me taking control of my life. I feel great abut it. Hearing people like you say this helps me stay strong.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015