(I finally got wise and copied these suckers before posting, because I just lost this to the ozone for a full 30 minutes.)
Yikes, Matt. Testosterone replacement therapy? I hope not!
Only because it would indicate a sincere desire to conquer the women of the world with a "chemically-enhanced" appendage. Yuck! I should add, neither of us was saving ourselves for marriage when we met; we'd both made plenty of "trips to the buffet", so to speak. You'd think at this point he's not trying to make up for everything he "missed'.
What he DID miss were all the things he said he wanted to do when we met. He never did ANY of them, not due to lack of support from me.
In fact, almost all the things we did do were offshoots of my interests. That wasn't my choice, he just didn't seem very motivated to do anything other than what he'd always done.
(LIGHTBULB RIGHT THERE!!!)
Although I must say that the majority of his "problems" since our marriage have been, in his mind, rooted in the performance, or lack of, said member.
Not stemming from "real" ED, more psychological/intimacy problems. It always worked "fine" for porn.
Even Viagra won't help his state of mind. That's what we all REALLY need.
Viagra for more blood flow to the most important organ; THE BRAIN!!!
But I digress... --------------------
Supposedly, when all this came to light and he went for the full battery of STD tests, he said that "everything was clean and his testosterone levels were GREAT".
I was supposed to be given a written report of all the results. Needless to say, I never got one.
I can't imagine that his T levels are "great" considering his age, general health, issues, depression, alcohol consumption, and ED.... but what do I know?
He has other health issues you'd THINK would take precedence over his male performance, but clearly he thinks otherwise.
So, I don't *think* that's it. Of course, I've been wrong before! Can't imagine that a conscientious physician would even consider treating him for low T considering he has more pressing issues physically.
But for every great doc, I'll show you five charlatans...
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Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?