Thank you MLC . We coincide once again . I too use my truck to have my breakdowns . But Im ok with it because it is a safe place and alone . I will even have full on conversations with myself trying to counsel me . Strange ? maybe , but it seems to help me . Today though i was offered an opinion to EXPOSE the affair . That is the only way to end it , so I was told . But DB says no to this and is not considered a good DBing practice . But I see others say it is . I refuse to EXPOSE mainly for my childrens sake .I would do anything to not have them feel the pain that IVe felt over the last 4 months . However I wish I knew the right path to take because Im not seeing any results in what im doing . I could have all the patience in the world if I knew that she was going to stay in our marriage but I dont know . So it leaves me with the question of what is the right path to take


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )