A little of both. I try to not take shots at her. But I try to make my point and get loud when she cuts me off. I need to just walk away at that point instead of getting loud.
No, you need to not try to make your point-that's you biting the hook.
There are NO points made in a yelling match.
Learn to walk away.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss