Well - he's off.

He brought up the email again--TWICE. (Apparently this is stuck in his craw...)

He basically told me both in person and by text that I shouldn't feel inadequate. When he told me in person I was walking into the bathroom, so I didn't say anything, and I think he assumed I didn't hear him. The text came after he had landed on his trip. Again - I didn't say anything (I was driving our daughter to the camp bus, so couldn't engage in texting). He then launched an entire conversation, speaking between the two of us. Not only did he write that I'm not inadequate, but that he's super awesome, too! Back and forth....So funny, this egomaniacal crazy. It's like he's so down on himself that he's got to overcompensate. Sheesh.

Anyway - some new things on this trip.
1) He's turned off international roaming. He had gotten it for himself post BD. He told me that he had it so he could contact OW more easily when he was in her country. Okay - that's off. It could just be that it's expensive. Not reading too much into that.

2) He spent last night playing a game online with S and me. Now - this was after 8 pm, and I totally understand that things can happen between end of day and 8...but in the past their dates would go from end of day until 11 or 12, consistently. Last night was his first night there. Tonight is his last night there. He has plans to go to a baseball game with another co-worker. Now - again....I'm totally aware that what he is telling me may not actually jive with what actually happens (believe none of what they say), but this would be a stupid lie to tell me, since the co-worker's wife is a good friend of mine and she's actually there right now, too. If he doesn't go to the baseball game, he's told S that he wants to play online with the two of us again tonight.

Shifting sand right now....Not really sure what to make of it.

Last edited by MLP; 07/23/14 11:34 AM.