Pilot, I can understand that fear. As much as I want to save my M. And especially because of my kids, I won't give up. But I have seen a lot to not like in my W and I'm nowhere near OK with how she's been throughout the marriage and am still very hurt by how she started this. It makes it very hard to continue to be sorry for mistakes made when you are confused about whether or not you even care anymore. I guess that's where the slow reconciliation process has to take place...if it ever even gets there.


Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.