GGG, I wish I could write as good as you. When I read your posts I see lots of similarities with my situation and a lot of the same questions I’ve been asking myself. It’s been 2 years from BD for me and I’ve been DBing for at least 18 months since I found this site. I don’t see much change in my sitch. Except that he hasn’t filed for D, still. But he ordered Viagra (that was originally shipped to my house, LOL) and he signed up to a couple of dating sites, one of them last summer and another one just recently. Oh, and he had a vasectomy last year, probably hoping for a younger girl who didn’t want kids. I guess it didn’t quite work, so now he is on the 50+ dating site.
I think that my H will never find anybody like me or even remotely close. I was the best thing that happened to him (his words), but I guess still not good enough to continue in the M. You expressed similar thoughts in one of your previous posts.
I love reading your posts and I get a lot of info from replies. I don’t get much traffic on my thread, so I visit yours often, just don’t have much time to post.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
