W filed D about a month ago. Have already had custody hearing / Child & Spousal support is set to start when I move out. Still doing the 180's and GAL.
Last Wednesday she says she I can't do this ( follow through with D) and hurt our son just before I'm leaving for work. Texts me at work to see how I'm doing. I tell her I'm ok. Thanks for sharing your thoughts this morning. I ask if there is anything I can do. She says tell me everything is going to be ok. I tell her everything will be ok. I ask her if we can do this later. She says ok. She asks why am I feeling so bad. I say I hope we can figure that out together. What do you think it is? She says I don't think I should tell you. I ask why. She says she doesn't want to hurt me and she broke things off last night. I asked why. She says we will talk about it later. I'm not going to have any contact with him anymore. I texted back not sure what to say. She texts sorry. I text tell me what do you want to do. She responds try one more time.
I have no idea what she wants right now. What can I say /what should I do? She is so racked with guilt. I'm still willing to try and figure this out. But there are days when I think it would be easier to quit. Still standing...
Thanks for your thoughts!
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14
