P.S. I don't know about others but this situation has really shown me what amazing people I am blessed to have in my life, including all of you on this BB. Dang, I choose friends WELL. Yes, there have been a few who have pulled away and pressured me with 'You should just leave him', but most have stood by me no matter my choice. I just received an amazing text from one of my most outspoken friends (who clearly thinks I should leave H) saying that she stands by me no matter what. It's a tough sitch for her because H's A pushes a lot of button for her but she's willing to put her own feelings and issues aside for me. Now that is a good person in my book.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14