Hi Kimmerz. To be honest, I don't think that you were going to keep this guy around for very long anyway. You may be a rescuer, but you've changed in recent years. You are more self-aware. You're more self-aware that you aren't ready to take on a project
Hang in there Kimmerz. When you find a guy that doesn't need rescuing, he won't drain you. You'll feel more energized than drained even if some work is involved - it won't be a monumental effort but a labor of love. There's a big difference.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."