Also, I need to do better at listening to everyone here. When I get in person, it goes so fast it is hard to do what I am supposed to do. (this is only the 3rd time I've seen her in 3 months) hopefully it gets easier over time.


Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015