Then she asked the therapist ( who is pro marriage) to see me as well.
THEN SHE CANCELLED THE DIVORCE WITH ME AND MOVED INTO MY BED.( oooops sorry about the caps)" But then she went away with him and now she is out of your bed again and going on dates with him. I just think she has softened you up so you accept the affair and she still plans to leave when your son is gone. Can you live like this until he leaves home and then she leaves?