Hi, I am sorry for the situation you are in. You mentioned you are scheduled to speak with a therapist. Is this as a couple? Please watch this video from Michele regarding When Couples Therapy is a Bad Idea
Are you speaking to a DB coach? They are experts in helping you decide what you should and should not say and what will bring her closer. I would be happy to give you more info.
Take care, Cristy
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