one more question (doubtful)...if she asks where I was, what do i say? That I was out? What if I just went to the bookstore? Not super manly.
Of course, the best GAL things are the TRUE things, that hopefully ARE manly -- at least some of them.
What are your interests, your passions? What are maybe some things that you felt you put aside for the sake of your marriage, that were important to you, personally? Sports? Music? Any volunteer work? Other?