Ready for some forum help

[NewB3]

Worked local today and spent the rest with my 10yr S. We just went shopping and at lunch he asked about W. He called and asked if we could bring her lunch. She asked to speak to me. Asked if I would mind...took her order and we went to eat. She got hers an hour later. After lunch we quickly left, she works from home. She made a movie suggestion, we said no and did our own thing. As soon as we returned...W " where did you guys go, what did you do?" Gave the...hit a few stores and then went to chiropractor for missed appt......groceries. She did not follow up, but usually asks if I bought anything. Really trying to play it cool, but I rarely, if ever, any more ask her anything. Last time she went shopping and bought some things, but did not offer to show me her clothing finds. I did not ask. I do still, as I always have....complement her clothing, hair, thoughtfulness, kindness, etc. these days, I pick something every few days and make no big deal of it. Quick off the cuff compliments. Just barely doing some of the things she liked about me in the beginning, that I have always done. Trying to detach. She had her therapy last night. As she was leaving, I told her to have fun, as she did me last time...she smiled and said..."I'll try"