Another Note from last nights conversation is that I did get the opportunity to tell him that as long as he is "hanging out" (as he likes to call it) with other women that there is really nothing for us to talk about. He agreed with that. He said that wasn't a problem for him to change that.
Good for you in standing up for yourself, Sam! Reading the above, and your initial post, I really like your style and respect your firm stance.
I'd encourage you to look up a poster named Train's sitch on the Infidelity forum (or is it here in Newcomers?). She really threaded the needle between "loving/forgiving" and "not gonna live in an open marriage" about as well as anyone I've seen here recently, and I think she could give you some strong support and advice.
You've already mentioned at least three times when your husband has said "that can change anytime you want it to." What does he mean by that???
