Ugh, I went in for the STD tests immediately the day after I found out about the A. I had to see someone who was not my normal doctor because I was in such a crazied state I needed a Xanax prescription ASAP as well. The woman I saw said every wrong thing that a person possibly could to a LBS. The thought of her pitied looks still make me cringe. At least I got it over with quickly and I survived. And I did it, I imagine too many folks avoid the STD tests entirely. It is awful.


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14