Thanks for the advice. How do I get a referral without telling people that my wife wants a divorce? Especially since your advocate for getting someone who specializes in paternal custody/men's rights? Is there a good website? Looking on google now...
You have to do your own research, or ask a trusted co-worker or someone who can keep your confidentiality. You may have to meet with two or three before you find a good one.
What city/state are you in, if you don't mind me asking? I can ask my atty if he can refer me to someone there if you want. Is yours a "fault" or a "no-fault" state?
Again, this is NOT to actually DO anything legally right now -- I would strongly advise you that you do NOT. You're just trying to get information, especially as it relates to any important "do's" or "don't's" right now.
