Yep -- no question. The way the guy who mentored ME thru my sitch so elegantly put it one day early on, "Life just handed you a great big sh&t sandwich. Time to start biting."
Steel yourself, brother -- you're in for one helluva ride. But it CAN be done (with no guarantees), and it sounds like you have the benefit of some really good "Plan A"-type interactions with your wife these past few months.
