WAW having an A but she denies it

[shodan]

Thanks all. I do tend to treat my neighbors well . So at dinner, be civil, ask about her business meetings but focus on the kids. Don't ask if she wants anything, etc. Be happy but don't appear angry. But be curt with her.

And the kids don't know about anything at this time. My D (10) is pretty intuitive, so she might figure something out soon. But my W and I want to put the kids first, hence why she wants me to move to NYC (with no promise of making the M work) so we both can parent the kids. I was going that direction because I figured it gave us the best chance of R until the A was revealed this weekend. Now I know moving to NYC with my W having an A is not the right decision for my family.

However, what is funny is we have been having some great times together (my W and I). I had offered to buy tickets to a concert a few weeks ago (i know, not the right move) and she said no at that time, said it was too soon. But on Friday, as we drank wine and ate the steak that I had cooked, she asked if we were going to the concert the next night and could not remember where we landed. She even looked into getting tickets, but they were way too expensive. This does not seem the move of someone who wants to leave a M. Perhaps she is just confused. But now that the A has been revealed and she refuses to acknowledge it, I just don't know anything any more.

Man, this [censored].