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When OM leaves for his country we will pick up where we left off.

Don't you think she already knows this?

She has no fear of losing you.

I do not get this ox. Cadet is right .

You are saying to her, when OM is in town he is your boyfriend and when he leaves I am your husband .

Wow, she has it made

So here is a question.

I originally was going to be home tonight but an appointment for tomorrow got cancelled so instead of being out wed night on the road I will be out today as well. I moved some appointments around.

When the WW left this morning she knew I would be home. Since she has been busy all day with patients she is going to dinner with OM tonight . She is expected home between 8 and nine.

I did not tell her I was gone tonight. We did email about the chance that flights to his country are being delayed.

One person suggested I leave her a letter that she finds when she gets home. She will realize I took care of s16( he loves when no ones home) and she if late will feel the pressure...that she has put on herself to be home for S16 even though he wants no one home.

The other option is to not tell her anything.

Any feedback is appreciated.

Thanks