- The OM (co-worker) is her boss. They can both get in serious trouble if this is found out and it could put a black eye on their careers.
- The OM recently received a job offer which will locate him out of state. WAW indicated previously that she has every intention of following him, but only after a year (she would need to get things settled here -- selling the house, etc.). She indicated that it is 99.9% certain that he will accept the job. Shortly, he will be flying down there and they will be physically separated for several months. He will be flying back occasionally only to see my WAW and his kids.
- Simultaneously, my WAW is seeking employment elsewhere. They both want to get out of their current place of employment because they recognize the volatility of the situation.
- We have a family vacation coming up in a month. She has indicated that she is on the fence about going. If I push her to go, I think that's counter-productive. But if she asks if it's ok to still go, do I allow her?
So with the impending physical separation (for long stretches anyways) between my WAW and the OM, when will I know is the right time to make even slight attempts at pursuing?
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
