My W just called. I picked up and she was very casual, apologizing for calling back so much later than she had told me. I then went straight into what you wrote, telling her that I knew about the A and that it was disrespectful to me, our family and our marriage. She quickly denied it and said "I don't know what you are talking about". I repeated your piece about lying and that I wanted to work on our M but the A had to end. I ended it by saying "When you're ready to at least be honest with me, we can talk further. I gotta go." and then I hung up.

Now I will just move on...


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed