WAW having an A but she denies it

[shodan]

Starsky

Thanks for this direct feedback. I had texted her to say that we should talk about her plans re: NYC because what i know changes everything. Her response was "huh" and that she would call me. But, she has not called me anyway.

I am not going to call or text her back. But what I don't know is how to handle this weekend when she gets back. As mentioned in my original post, she texted my D(on a group text with me that my Dhad started with us) that we will go to dinner on Sat night. While I want to maintain a happy home for my kids, that just seems to be giving her what she wants. Her OM in NYC and her family in Boston. Until this weekend when I discovered the A, I had been doing fun things on the weekend to show her that I had changed. As stated, she commented that she was having fun and seemed to be lowering her wall. But, given that she is having the A, clearly her actions or responses either were for show or were just showing her confusion.