More info...my W just texted that she will call me later to talk. I am not sure whether I should take the call or let it go to VM.

Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed