I have three 180s that I've been focusing on.

1. Being thoughtful through my actions. E.G - Putting a little sticky note on her steering wheel, wishing her to have a great day. Writing her a poem (only one so far, which I haven't shown yet -- I only told her about it). Making her dinner. Bringing her favorite snack to work. These are all borderline (or outright) pursuing, aren't they?

2. Making sacrifices so that my WAW (who works longer hours than I do) has more time to relax, etc. Accommodating around her schedules, helping out with household chores, etc. This one seems like I'm pursuing also.

3. Being open and communicative. Talking about my feelings, and not hiding anything. This one I have to be careful with as I don't want to reveal too much.

Last edited by mindsin; 07/22/14 02:24 PM.

M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!