you are in lawyer he!! - i'm so sorry to hear that your h can't cut the cord. it truly is he!!.
How can you be liable for his legal bill if you guys are divorced? i'd have thought that the divorce decree absolves you of any responsibility in any way for him & his bils?
nine yers and he cannot move forward - it's a bit scary. i wonder if his new w will ever realizze he's got a big big problem and get him some help someh ow.
good luck- hang on- i think of you every time i'm ripping things apart in the garden for therapy- get those clippers out and go murder some offending big big "weed"