Hey MLP I agree with you that setting that boundary is terrifing . I am doing the same on the advice of a counsellor and several resourses . To let the affair run its course , they always do apparently but they take time . My thought is if I can wait out this behavior then when the fog lifts she will see me standing there patiently waiting , loyal to the end . And hopefully she will love me for it .In the process I hope that I dont lose respect and love for her .
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
