Thanks Riley, I understand the legal reasons I can't move out long-term. That is why I'm going to see if she'll agree to trade off time in the house. I have read Sandi's list...and I am trying to do those things. It's hard because I can't get away from her. She's on the attack ALL the time. I'm trying. I've got a couple of friends that are trying to talk me off the metaphorical ledge.


Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.