Yea, you def do not want to leave the house, but it does not look like she will leave either. And I know it is extremely hard to detach while you are in the same house. I had to S to get my sanity back. Take a short vacation to your friends place, and suggest she does the same at some point. You need to give eachother space somehow.
Keep posting, and more importantly, keep your cool the best you can!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16