Hi 2B, I really like what AJ said. It makes a lot of sense to me for sure. Another way of looking at it is it may not be a coincidence that the more detached YOU become, the LESS H likes it. The less you pursue, the more he is drawn back to you and the M. Unless the detachment is REAL, not just done to try and get him back, it won't work. You have to truly be able to say you are alright without him as much as with him. So, now that you are getting to that point, H notices it. See's that it is real and maybe, just maybe he will be drawn back. The secret is it must be real. This is why they say that it is up to the LBS if there will ever be a R once they come out. Because if it's not, he just doesn't work.
