I know that. I try to focus on that. I'm in panic mode and can't get my crap straight. I had a friend offer me to come stay w/ them for a bit, but I can't just "move out." My hope is that I can get my W to crash w/ a friend some so maybe we can trade off nights in the house...she needs space to process, and I agree. But I can't just move out and away from my kids, nor can I give up rights to my house or kids from a legal standpoint.


Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.