I know that. I try to focus on that. I'm in panic mode and can't get my crap straight. I had a friend offer me to come stay w/ them for a bit, but I can't just "move out." My hope is that I can get my W to crash w/ a friend some so maybe we can trade off nights in the house...she needs space to process, and I agree. But I can't just move out and away from my kids, nor can I give up rights to my house or kids from a legal standpoint.
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.