Thanks, Claire. Your encouragement means a lot.

I need help with something else:

My husband bought a groupon a few months ago for admission to a museum for two. We both forgot about it and while I was buying another groupon right now I saw it and asked him about it. He suggested we go together. WHAT.?!!?? I know he thinks we'd be great friends (his words were, "I don't have a dart board with your face on it or anything") but isn't this a tad weird? Can I use this to my advantage or is this a very bad idea. See, H thinks we'd be great divorced, great as friends, great co parents, etc., but I want to save the marriage! If we can be good together while not married in his head, why can't we be good together and work on the marriage???? I'm so lost! I feel like I'm going insane here.


M: 37 H: 36
M: 13 T: 18
D: 7
Bomb: 6/30/14
Separation: 8/11/14

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.