The W txt's me back after I brought the OP, he debt and the school refund to light. And said that she would like to work towards friendship as well.
She said she didn't trust me with her emotions or best interests. And that she guesses that will take time.
And she questions my big changes. Saying had they are placating
I Waited a day and told her that I can seen how she would feel that way, but these changes are for me, that is irrespective of what "we" look like.
She responded with a note - glad your happy, have a good one.
I had to call her about something later in the day, and she was actually pleasant again. Not sure if there is a correlation. But I'll take every small step forward I can get.
On a personal note, I haven't been checking up on her social media, snooping etc. I've been surrounding myself with supportive fun people. There ups and downs still come, but I am working through them.
Baby steps.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
