Frankly, and I'm no vet here so take what I say with some salt, but a weekend away is too much too fast, IMO. I'm sure you desperately need some time away but I'd keep doing what you're doing, don't rush into this time away while the kids are still on break, THINK ABOUT YOU. If he mentions it again , suggest perhaps dinner where you two can chat, laugh, etc., but NOT about the kids or OW. make it light and YOU take the power to end the evening with him wanting more. Then think. Think, think, think... Is this the man you want? Are you the woman you want to be? Take it slowly. Very slowly. A date. Maybe a play date with him at the park with the kids and you... A weekend away? Too much too soon and that could backfire.
