It is way too early to give up, regardless of what your W is saying or doing. Give it some time, stay LRT/NC and give your W the space she needs to reflect on everything without you being in the picture.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16