Ok, so she spent the entire weekend back at home with me. Was a great time! We ended up talking about us and our future and eventually house shopping. Didnt get a lot of time together since I had to work on Saturday and she had the baby shower to go to.
Went to church last night and then to a sushi place. Ended up having a great meal, sorry Wonka no Playboy roll on the menu...Went home and went for a walk at the local park and then drove around looking at houses a bit. Also on a side note, had lots of sex this weekend lol.
The way it is going now its as if nothing happened between us at all. She mentioned something about us being "worked out" and I told her that I still wanted to pursue MC or at least some sort of marriage building activity/retreat. I know that communication issues will end up resurfacing between us and I dont want to fall back into the same old routine and be back in the same sitch in 6 months. I know that she is thrilled with who I am becoming right now, but that isnt the only issue that we have. I can honestly say that she doesnt need to change as much as I do. We both need help in learning to communicate effectively, but she doesnt have the kind of personal issues that I do.
Talked to my brother about all of this and realized that it was just 3 weeks ago that I was feeling as if my world had crumbled down around me and here we are now. It really can change in no time at all. Hang in there DBers and keep fighting.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14
