Saving my marriage by focusing on ME!

[Oxford1]

So this is the first test.
We are going to go food shopping tonight.

She will a" test me" she will try to get me to ask what she did with OM on Sunday

Where she went to lunch today etc...

She already tested me when she called and said she had work to do tonight from home, this means she missed more work today then just an hour, I said nothing.

I even told her for the next two weekends and the days in between I am just getting on with my life. When OM leaves for his country we will pick up where we left off.

The MC believes if I take this approach I will be the better man. I won't be the one constantly pleasing pick me or bashing the other or setting rules that can be viewed as controlling...

I can only control Ox