I have a question about going dark. If my wife felt alone in the family should I do this if she seems to want to spend time with me and the kids.?
Do you know what "going dark" involves? In glancing over your thread, I hardly see it being a successful move on your part. MWD suggests that going dark is saved until all else has failed. As many kids and activities your family has, I don't see how you could be dark. And, if not applied correctly, it loses the intended effect. I suggest you not go that route at this time.
BTW, (not saying you are, but) don't confuse the term going dark with detaching.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
