Slowly switching gears

[Anders]

Journal: One thing I wished I had done right from the start of this process was to keep a calendar of W and I's interactions to gauge our progress.

I have been more diligent with this in the past four months. And in the last couple of weeks, it has been interesting to see W initiating contact a lot more frequently albeit around 'logistical' issues such as bills and mail. Still not in regular contact but relatively speaking, a lot more within the context of our situation.

So I took a chance to test how warm the water is and sent W a non-'logistics' text (yes-I signed up for that program to add to my DB toolbox) about an indie movie coming to town which she would have got a kick out of. She sent back a laughing emoticon and mentioned she had heard of it.

Baby steps.