Dev,

Wanted to shoot off a comment before I leave for a business trip to Chicago.


Originally Posted By: Devaste
One question, I usually call the kids at night to say goodnight, and also speak with them in the AM. She finds this incredibly irritating. I just want to speak to my kids. It's not the sword I'm going to fall on. I'd like to keep doing this because sometimes my work prevents me from seeing them as often as I would like. The S has made it a bit worse. She claims the kids don't need it. I guess I have to respect her wishes, just makes me sad. I don't want the kids to think I don't want to see or talk to them.


You're their father! Keep up with this...irritation or not. Your R with the kids is precious and I admire you for making that effort.

I cannot believe that W claims that "kids don't need it." What planet is she on? Oh right...on planet OM!

If I were you, I'd be firm on this and say that it is important to you & the kids. You'd appreciate her cooperation on this aspect as a co-parent.

Stay strong...you got this!