When I read your last message, I notice one major thing. It's all about you -- what you feel or want your H to do and your complaints about what he is doing to you or not doing. I know this is very hard and I know that the situation is very unfair. But, if you really want to get anywhere in your sitch right now, I believe that you have to drop this attitude for awhile. Think about what constructive steps you can take towards making the interactions between you and your H ones that he remembers sweetly and will want to reconnect with. Right now, I think that your actions are driving him further away. Draw him closer now. Be a W only a fool would leave. . .