I would not call them contingencies, but boundaries. All I am looking for is something to rebuild a foundation of trust. Of course I do not know if there was a PA or not. EA absolutely. PA she denies. Based on her actions it would be a huge leap of faith to believe a PA never happened. Quite honestly, I am assuming the worse case scenario. I do not dwell on the details of what I think may have happened because it really does not do me any good.
On the forgiveness side, maybe I chose to forget and move on, and skip the forgiveness part. I will reflect more on it.
You have a gift for seeing past the words people type and seeing the person behind the typing. I hope you keep using that gift here with me. 2x4s and all
Last edited by pilot; 07/21/1404:25 PM.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
