Hurt and Confused 2

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25yrs...the reason I am sick of this is because I keep getting different advices, I do suspect there is someone else or she is searching for someone else. She at first wanted to keep the house cause she loves it, now she wants out because she cant afford it and because she wants to leave because of the memories here, she says I can keep everything or she will throw it all away, she is erasing our entire marriage,, she seems like she feels guilty and wants to divorce me as quickly as possible (her words) but that she just wants us to be friends...in other words from what people have told me shi is cake eating...ive been there emotionally for her but I have been told to not always be available. She is a completely different women now, she has become this materialistic status chick. She never was like that, buying sexy g strings(which she used to tell me she hates wearing) loosing weight, dressing like a diva and going to the gym a lot. Completley ignoring that we had a relationship for the last 15 years...the only time she seems interested in me is when I completely ignore her. When im there for her she treats me like a second class citizen. For example our air broke so I came by to fix it, she was at her brothers house, I called to tell her it will be a couple of hours more and when she hung up she threw the phone down and said "shut the f up already and fix the air" it really bothered her brother so he told me about it.