Tried some of the advice in the 5ll after she sent me an email. The first email I told her that the boys and I appreciate all her hard work for us. She responded by saying she didn't thank me enough for all that I' did for them. I than went into a longer email telling her how I felt about her. Nothing negative and nothing to put pressure on her. She didn't respond to that one but called to just say hi and that she would call me later after she was done her work. She didn't ask to speak to the kids which she does, so maybe it worked a little.
