GGG, I was just trying to help clarify your thoughts.
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So I know I missed what you were getting at, maybe you can help me by clarifying a bit?
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What caught my attention was the part where you may be trying to punish him. You said it was "mostly" because.
It's been my experience when we do things for ourselves and not as a reaction to somebody else's behavior, we don't "mostly" do them nor do we explain them or get anxious about them or how they may affect that somebody else.
It may be that you don't think he sees it or feels it. He does. He's incredibly sensitive and can pick up on all kinds of things.
That's all. Just trying to help you see that you may be trying to "get back" at him for his actions. I don't blame you but it may not be very helpful to you.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."