Wife and I went on a "date" on Saturday to celebrate the day we first spoke on the phone. We walked and held hands for the first time in forever. We sat in a pub and talked for a couple of hours. I made the mistake of being way too optimistic about her signals and I started to go in pursuit mode without even realizing what was going on.
What ensued next was a heated argument talking about how she can't think clearly right now, and talking about child custody scenarios. It was not good, and I totally messed up.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!