I was referring to the suggestions re helping your H fix himself. We cross-posted.

Respond in kind. Be friendly but not cloying. If he was brief, be brief. If he was a more detailed, be a little more detailed but less so than he was if he was reeeeaally detailed.

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Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss